If you were to do so, to the point where I can’t even have that freedom I’m supposed to have, I’d be your slave, not your daughter. I will obey what I think is supposed to be obeyed. And I will ignore everything else that entitles me to act as your servant. Commands and favors are hard to distinguish between you and I. To me, a command is something one must follow. And a favor is something you ask of someone. But to you guys, a command is, you either do it or you get grounded. Or if you don’t do it, you won’t be allowed to do this or that. And a favor would be something like this.. asks the favor, we say no, and then you turn the favor into a a command.. which then goes back to your definition of a command. Now for some reason, I still haven’t stood up to you guys about that. You have no idea that I’m always ranting about you on this. You have no idea how annoyed I get when you ask me constant “favors”/”commands”. If I had the guts to say it to your face, I would ask, “Why the hell do we have to clean the whole house every day of the freaking week.” Straight up. Also, I would explain to you the real meaning of a favor. Yes, I know. You’re my parents, and as the child, a grown up young lady, as you say.. I’m supposed to know my responsibilities. But, I do know my responsibilities. I also know that I’m not a maid in this house. Everyone has their share in the house. I know you guys are working, and are always very tired. But I also go to school, and am very tired with homework, studying for tests, projects, etc. And so we’re even.